"Is what I’m living now truly all there is?"

 

For anyone who feels caught in a loop -

of obsession, addiction, confusion, or inner heaviness,

in relationships, at work, with others, or with oneself -

and finds themselves asking:

"How do I get out of this?"

 

For those who long to live differently -

with ease, spaciousness, and inner coherence -

the Wholofied Understanding Attendness

offers companionship and support.

 

In our one-on-one Meetings,

grounded in the understanding

that each person is a Wholofied Being,

we learn to attune to subtle movements of thought and emotion -

and to uncover the deeper meaning they quietly hold.

 

Since every form of pain or distress

is a state of absent freedom and well-being,

the compass of our Meetings becomes:

"What restores freedom and well-being within us?"

 

By listening to the stream of consciousness

and attending to the words, images, associations

and sensations that arise,

we begin to notice how behaviours, thoughts,

and even"random" occurrences -

refract a coherent inner logic.

 

Instead of offering techniques or self-management protocols,

we explore the patterned themes we have created -

to understand why we created them,

and what they were trying to facilitate.

 

Once the inner map becomes refracted,

we can finally meet the root from which

our distress first emerged.

 

We begin to see that our pain is not something to fight -

but to recognise as the refracted echo

of a deeper intelligence that sought to care.

 

Self-understanding

liberates us from experiences that feel like fate.

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This sense of fate is an inner expression of our longing for harmony - 

 an attempt to construct a substitute reality

to shield us from what we once concealed within ourselves.

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Through this lens,

poetic layers of beauty, intelligence, and sentient design

reveal themselves - woven delicately within our distress.

 

The "problem" we began with

may turn out to be a pathway

back to ourselves -

toward a life rich with creativity, inspiration, intimacy,

and deeper connection.

 

This is an invitation to self-healing

through philosophical-psychological inquiry -

as understanding deepens into a living inner gaze

that continues to accompany us.

 

Meetings take place in a warm, attentive atmosphere,

via online video calls,

and are fully attuned to the unique rhythm and nature of each Meeter.

 

Between Meetings, we stay in touch through WhatsApp -

 a gentle complementary space

for reflection, emotion, and integration

in one's ongoing Self-Meeting.

 

You can Click here to schedule an introductory call.

 

See you there,

Haim Tor